“The 21 Unseen Blessings of Being Mindful” by Guy Finley
Making mistakes in life is one of its inevitabilities, as it’s impossible to transcend any individual limitation without first agreeing to meet it. Such encounters are the path we must walk if our wish is to fulfill whatever may be our divinely dispensed possibilities.
However, the more awake we can be, the more mindful of the whole of ourselves we are before we start moving toward any aim in life, the less likely we are to find ourselves feeling stressed, angry, or fearful over where we end up.
Use the following twenty-one unseen blessings of being mindful to help you realize just how nice it would be to see a pit before you fall into it!
1. If I were mindful, I would never be in a rush…even if I had to move quickly.
2. If I were mindful, I couldn’t leave a mess behind me, let alone create one for someone else to clean up.
3. If I were mindful, I couldn’t be tempted into making the same mistake repeatedly, let alone believe in the sense of regret that always follows.
4. If I were mindful, I wouldn’t have to talk to myself for any reason, let alone explain or justify myself for whatever may have just happened.
5. If I were mindful, I could never say something cruel to anyone, anywhere, for any reason.
6. If I were mindful, I would never judge those around me, let alone myself.
7. If I were mindful, I would be consciously aware of anything I take into myself… whether some kind of food, my own thoughts and feelings, or the emanations of others.
8. If I were mindful, I would lose all fascination with talking about myself.
9. If I were mindful, I would know – without having to think about it – the general, if not the specific inner state of anyone around me.
10. If I were mindful, I could never be made to act impulsively.
11. If I were mindful, I would have no need, whatsoever, to put on any kind of pretense.
12. If I were mindful, I would be able to use the negative manifestation of others for a highly positive purpose.
13. If I were mindful, I would know the difference between wants and needs.
14. If I were mindful, I couldn’t be brought to blame any other person for my pain.
15. If I were mindful, I would know the difference between useful and useless conversations.
16. If I were mindful, I would never embrace, let alone be convinced to hang on to a fear or worry.
17. If I were mindful, I could listen to others without having to inject something about myself.
18. If I were mindful, neither the imagined joy, nor the sorrow of some tomorrow would hold any attraction for me.
19. If I were mindful, I wouldn’t misplace things, let alone my sense of self.
20. If I were mindful, there would be no interest in – or need for – psychologically defending myself.
21. If I were mindful, I would enjoy an effortless sense of gratitude and reverence for life.
So the question is: Given these 21 blessings of being mindful… why in the name of all that is good, holy and divine, do we not place being mindful before all other pursuits? Shouldn’t we dedicate our lives to being as perfectly mindful as it is possible for us to be?
Answer these two questions in the affirmative, act accordingly, and all unseen blessings will be yours. To ignore them is to turn your back on yourself and – with your inner eyes thus closed – to walk in ever-smaller circles, going nowhere but down.
Author: Guy Finley is the best-selling author of The Secret of Letting Go, The Essential Laws of Fearless Living, and more than 40 books and audio albums on self-realization, including his brand new book The Secret of Your Immortal Self. Guy is the founder and director of Life of Learning Foundation, a nonprofit center for self-study located in southern Oregon where he gives talks four times each week. Guy is a faculty member at the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, New York and is a regular expert contributor to Beliefnet and the Huffington Post. For more information visit the Life of Learning Foundation website and sign up for free to receive Guy’s 8-hour eCourse Seven Steps to Oneness on 8 MP3 downloads.